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Blog Post created by auntchelle24 on Apr 12, 2018

With my smoke free day coming (it was yesterday) I knew I should start telling people about my plan.  I was hesitant. It was as if saying it out loud made it more real.  If I told people I would really have to commit.  It started slow, real slow.  In fact the first person outside of my family I told is a colleague I have known for many years, but only see a few times a year.  It happened organically.  I didn't intend on telling him.  It just seemed to fit in the conversation, and without even thinking about it the words were out of my mouth.   I wasn't sure how he would react.  Our conversation paused and I braced myself for...what?  Disdain, sarcasm, condescension? It was none of that. He was so thrilled for me and flattered that I was willing to share this with him that he teared up and asked if he could give me a hug.  He offered support at anytime and told me he would follow up more often to lend an ear or whatever else I need.  I was floored and comforted by his response.  So I tried it out on someone else.

 

The next person I told is a co-worker I see everyday.  She sits in the office next to mine.  Again, the opportunity just seemed to present itself and naturally work in a conversation.  Her response?  She took out her phone and marked the day on her calendar.  She wanted to be sure not to miss the momentous day.  Wow!  I don't know what I expected from people, but it certainly wasn't this kind of reaction.  On it went from here.  I sent an email to my office, 16 people, to let them know too.  It was a warning that there might be some crabby days and my door would probably be closed more often than normal for a short period of time.  Every single person thanked me for the warning and provided words of encouragement.  Two came to my office in tears with more hugs.  Yesterday, when I arrived at work there was a bag of hard candies and inspirations words from an anonymous giver. 

 

Every single person I have told, whether close friend, colleague, or acquaintance, has been wonderful.  In the last week I have heard many a person's story recounting the habits broken and strategies for success.  I am amazed by the obstacles so many people I know have overcome, inspired by all I have heard, and thankful beyond words for the support.  

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