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Heck Week

RoseH
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l learned how to quit smoking on the former website called “Quitnet.com”.  New quitters always ask how long it will take to feel like a non-smoker.  It seems like forever, but in reality it is usually only three weeks.

 

We call that second week of quitting “Heck Week”.  It is still going to be challenging to keep your quit, but as each day goes by, I felt it was “more natural” that I didn’t smoke for every little thing that I used as a “reward” to light up.  The more I said, “No”, when a craving came to smoke, I got stronger!  Don’t let “stinkin thinkin” in!  Be positive.  And know that your decision to quit was the right decision!  Never question that decision!

 

I quit “Cold Turkey”, but there is another way according to the book by Allen Carr, “The Easy Way to Stop Smoking”.  He allows us to smoke when we start to read the book.  So that, in itself, made me want to read it even more!  This is an excerpt from the book.  It is called “the moment of revelation”, and it takes place about three weeks after a smoker stops.  The sky appears to become brighter and as the last of the poison is swept away, the last of the brainwashing disappears along with it.  Instead of telling yourself you do not need to smoke, you suddenly realize that the last thread is broken, and you can enjoy the rest of your life without ever needing to smoke again…

 

Now, deep down inside, I never felt “happy” when smoking.  I never felt like it was "a good thing to do”.  That magic moment when my mind believed that this “addiction” to the drug nicotine was the only reason I was smoking at that moment, true freedom was what I had a glimpse of!

 

Smoking is self-imposed slavery, as Mr. Carr puts it.  Freedom from smoking is how we were born.  Be born again and quit this killer!  I promise you will feel better and have your life back!

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I was 57 years old and smoking like a chimney in September 2003. I was also having medical problems and upon my doctor’s diagnosis, I knew I had to quit smoking. I was scheduled and admitted to the hospital in October 2003. I had a total hysterectomy and was recuperating, when a nurse found me upset in my room and she told me to try to calm down, and take a deep breath… I could not take a deep breath! In fact, I had to be put on oxygen immediately! I was terrified. A medical specialist was brought in, and that is when I learned I had COPD (Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease). My x-rays confirmed it, and the direct cause was smoking [since I was 15 years old]. I had double pneumonia as an infant, so my lungs were fragile, even when I was very young… I had to stay an extra week and they pumped steroids and antibiotics in my arm so I could breathe on my own, again. My nose got so sore with those oxygen cannulas in both nostrils. Hindsight is always 20/20. I should have never started smoking. However, peer pressure was awful when I was 15 years old. A few of my classmates dared me to light up and smoke one… I remember that first taste and how I coughed from the smoke. It was awful! But I wanted to “belong”, so I smoked until the addiction took hold of me! Back to the hospital room… I was terrified. I quit. I stayed that way for six whole months. My husband, Ed quit with me. We were doing great and then one day I said to him, “My life feels empty. Do you think we’ve got this quitting thing under control? Do you think we can have just a few a day? Before I could say another word, he was off in the car to buy some cigarettes… We both lit up when he returned, and I felt like my throat and lungs were on fire! I smashed it out and coughed! “I will never do that again!” But an addict’s lies are just that! Before long I was smoking over a pack a day again… The truth is that I had no idea how terrible the “addiction” to the drug Nicotine was. I smoked for another decade or two and each day I would tell myself that I would quit “tomorrow”. Don’t be as naïve’ as I was about this slowly killing addiction! Quit now! I would not be using two inhalers if I would have kept my quit way back then…