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Attitude Is Everything

RoseH
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I smoked for over 50 years…  I am getting close to two years quit now.  Was it worth it?  You bet!  Is it hard to do?  Well let’s think about that!

 

Attitude is everything…  for life…  in general!  It can be a good day or a bad one…  and it is all up to me!  Being positive is the only way to accomplish anything!  Not so long ago, I used to feel like I was “missing” something by not smoking. And why was that?  Because a cigarette contains the drug, Nicotine.  And Nicotine is very addictive!

 

My life literally revolved around when  can I have my next cigarette?  Looking back and rethinking about when is ridiculous to me now!  Having another and another and another cigarette slowly destroys our health!  And I can prove it.  I have “COPD” which is Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease, which is incurable.  There are medicines that can help me, but they are expensive.  They are a ball and chain around my life.  They are my lifeline.  I cannot quit them.  If I would have stopped smoking sooner, my body would be able to heal itself.  I lost that ability when the disease won!

 

But…  there is a bright side!  I don’t stop exercising anymore because I am out of breath.  Even with COPD I can live a better life…   if I just do not light up again.  One day at a time my life can be better!  So, quit!  Quit today!  Quit now!  Do not tell yourself that, “I’ll quit tomorrow.”  Tomorrow may never come!  Addiction gives us tons of excuses to put it off, another day and another day…  don’t fall into that trap, like I did!

 

It took me a long time to “get it” as far as the “addiction” goes.  I always told myself I can quit any time I want to.  But that was a downright lie!  The addictive drug, Nicotine, whispered all kinds of non-truths into my mind.  I had to read and get all kinds of information on how smoking destroyed me!

 

This Community will help you learn everything you can about how terrible smoking is.  Simply put, “Community Is Strength”.   It would be so much harder if I did not have the support of this Community and others I joined along the way.  Get all the information you can from asking questions, reading posts here and searching for answers anywhere you can.  The book, “Quitting Smoking the Easy Way” by Allen Carr helped me very much!  Knowledge is power.  Attitude and knowledge are powerful tools.  Not being able to breath is a good reason to quit too!  And I am not laughing after I say that!

 

Positive attitude is everything!  If I knew how powerful my negative thoughts were before I quit smoking, I would have quit much sooner!  Don’t defeat yourself with negative thoughts!  I had my first cigarette at 14 years old and there were years of smoking when a lighted cigarette was always near me…  As I look back now, I have such regret!  Don’t do that to yourself!  The sooner you quit, the better off you will be…  Period!

 

I wish all of you a very happy and smoke free Friday, and let’s all keep our beautiful quits, ok?  Rosemary

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I was 57 years old and smoking like a chimney in September 2003. I was also having medical problems and upon my doctor’s diagnosis, I knew I had to quit smoking. I was scheduled and admitted to the hospital in October 2003. I had a total hysterectomy and was recuperating, when a nurse found me upset in my room and she told me to try to calm down, and take a deep breath… I could not take a deep breath! In fact, I had to be put on oxygen immediately! I was terrified. A medical specialist was brought in, and that is when I learned I had COPD (Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease). My x-rays confirmed it, and the direct cause was smoking [since I was 15 years old]. I had double pneumonia as an infant, so my lungs were fragile, even when I was very young… I had to stay an extra week and they pumped steroids and antibiotics in my arm so I could breathe on my own, again. My nose got so sore with those oxygen cannulas in both nostrils. Hindsight is always 20/20. I should have never started smoking. However, peer pressure was awful when I was 15 years old. A few of my classmates dared me to light up and smoke one… I remember that first taste and how I coughed from the smoke. It was awful! But I wanted to “belong”, so I smoked until the addiction took hold of me! Back to the hospital room… I was terrified. I quit. I stayed that way for six whole months. My husband, Ed quit with me. We were doing great and then one day I said to him, “My life feels empty. Do you think we’ve got this quitting thing under control? Do you think we can have just a few a day? Before I could say another word, he was off in the car to buy some cigarettes… We both lit up when he returned, and I felt like my throat and lungs were on fire! I smashed it out and coughed! “I will never do that again!” But an addict’s lies are just that! Before long I was smoking over a pack a day again… The truth is that I had no idea how terrible the “addiction” to the drug Nicotine was. I smoked for another decade or two and each day I would tell myself that I would quit “tomorrow”. Don’t be as naïve’ as I was about this slowly killing addiction! Quit now! I would not be using two inhalers if I would have kept my quit way back then…