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Our Missing This Day

OldBones-Larry
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"Missing Man Table & Honors Ceremony"
Moderator:
As you entered the dining area, you may have noticed a table at the front, raised to call your
attention to its purpose -- it is reserved to honor our missing loved ones [or missing comrades
in arms, for veterans].
Set for six, the empty places represent Americans still [our men] missing from each of the five
services -- Army, Navy, Marine Corps, Air Force, Coast Guard – and civilians. This Honors
Ceremony symbolizes that they are with us, here in spirit.
Some [here] in this room were very young when they were sent into combat; however, all
Americans should never forget the brave men and women who answered our nation's call [to
serve] and served the cause of freedom in a special way.
I would like to ask you to stand, and remain standing for a moment of silent prayer, as the
Honor Guard places the five service covers and a civilian cap on each empty plate.
Honor Guard: (In silence or with dignified, quiet music as background, the Honor Guard moves
into position around the table and simultaneously places the covers of the Army, Navy, Marine
Corps, Air Force and Coast Guard, and a civilian hat, on the dinner plate at each table setting.
The Honor Guard then departs.)
Moderator:
Please be seated ....... I would like to explain the meaning of the items on this special table.
The table is round -- to show our everlasting concern for our missing men.
The tablecloth is white -- symbolizing the purity of their motives when answering the call to
duty.
The single red rose, displayed in a vase, reminds us of the life of each of the missing, and
the[ir] loved ones and friends of these Americans who keep the faith, awaiting answers.
The vase is tied with a red ribbon, symbol of our continued determination to account for our
missing.
A slice of lemon on the bread plate is to remind us of the bitter fate of those captured and
missing in a foreign land.
A pinch of salt symbolizes the tears endured by those missing and their families who seek
answers.
The Bible represents the strength gained through faith to sustain those lost from our country,
founded as one nation under God.
The glass is inverted -- to symbolize their inability to share this evening's [morning’s/day’s]
toast.
The chairs are empty -- they are missing.
Let us now raise our water glasses in a toast to honor America's POW/MIAs and to the success
of our efforts to account for them.

For those that returned under the banner that they served to their last.....

Trace Adkins - Arlington (Official Music Video) - YouTube 

Rest in peace ......

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I am a male that underwent coronary artery bypass X3 (triple) on 10/22/13 at the age of 55. I was living on about 20-30% of one coronary artery and my left heart output was only 20% to 25%. I spent a week in the hospital after surgery and went home. Then had to go back a day later for another week because I had pneumonia. Finally a few days because of a slight arythmia. All told it has been about 2 1/2 weeks. I am past the cravings by now and only have the urges to contend with. I really don't suggest that anyone quits smoking using this technique though. I'll have to carry the scars from that day for the rest of my life. The large one down the center of my chest, and the ones from several "silent" infarctions. I came that close to the next world. Never again will I subject my body to that (at one point in my life I was smoking 5 packs of cigarillos a day). I now have to say N.O.P.E. (Not One Puff Ever) every day of my life. TheOldGoat-Joan, I miss you terribly my friend. Elder Lists Guilia's: (/blogs/Giulia-blog/2017/06/18/elders-list-ao-december-7-2016 ) or Smorgy's (Chronological Elder List)