To get through the tough times.
In the 12 years I've been here, there have been a number of people who kept failing and after a number of times, came to me (through a direct message) to ask if they could be accountable to me when times got tough.
We went through the hard times together with logic and the knowledge that as time passed, their feeling of loss would fade.
Most had success, a few haven't.
If you want to direct message me, me ear is always open, I will give you the best
(no BS) advice I can. Other elders will as well.
That is all