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dpernell
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Please Help

I stop smoking at the end of January this year I was not having craving at all I had a slip in February  and now that's all I think about??? how long will this last? I don't want to fail.......... please help

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samantha67
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My best advice to you from my own personal experience... no matter what,  do NOT allow yourself to dwell on the craving, when you have one... do something to distract your mind... I think a craving scientifically  only lasts a couple of minutes.. so DISTRACT yourself to get you through it.. This tactic is what finally put me over the edge to keep to my quit.  And,  be completely assured, that this will get better!! I promise!! I just passed my 2 yr mark.. never thought it could happen...  Now, I could never go back..nor do I have any desire to now         You too can do this.

elvan
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dpernell‌ You can distract yourself through the craves, you awakened the sleeping beast when you smoked and now it thinks it has a chance.  Show it AND yourself that it doesn't.  One step at a time, baby steps when you have to take them.  Thinking about smoking all the time and fighting the craves is a recipe for disaster...if you prepared for your quit, you should have a list of triggers and you should have a list of things to do INSTEAD of smoking!  Remember why you want to quit, think of how you CAN quit and you can take control of your own life without daily struggles. Smoking will not do anything FOR you, but it sure will do lots TO you.  No crave ever killed a person but no one can say that about smoking.  Smoking does NOT relieve depression, pain, anxiety, anger, or any other uncomfortable emotion that your addiction has told you it will do.  It LIES!

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How about if you had the information on what to expect and when?

When the toughest times to get through are and how to get through them?

How about tools that would break any craving.

Do you think you could do it then?

/blogs/jonescarp.aka.dale.Jan_2007-blog/2011/06/26/what-to-expect-in-the-first-four-months?sr=search... 

Here's How Your Senses Can Override Your Thinking 

https://excommunity.becomeanex.org/groups/best-of-ex/blog/2011/05/24/no-mans-land-days-30-to130-appr... 

JACKIE1-25-15
Member

I saw this blog several days ago but did not respond because there were so  many good answers.  You will find that the thought of not thinking of smoking has no timeframe, but for me when I accepted the fact that I was no longer a smoker and nothing would ever cause me to smoke again no matter what was happening in my life it was a relief ans weight off my shoulders.  It was no longer a constant thought in the forefront   When I said to myself I was a not smoker and new it it was around 80 something days. NOPE.

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