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Kellybeth
Member

5 Weeks today..

I have been smoke free for 5 weeks today. I wasn't sure I could do it but I did! 5 weeks is a long time and I'm so proud of myself. The other night I had a dream I was smoking and I decided I wasn't going to tell you guys. LOL. But everyday seems a tiny bit easier then the day before.

I just want to tell the newly quit smokers that are in the first few days that it does get better. It does get easier. Little by little I am getting myself back.

Have you ever seen that commercial that says that cigarettes are bullies? Well they are. I will not be told when to walk away from my child or a good tv show just to smoke. I am in control now NOT my addiction. At times it is still hard and I'm sure it will be for a while but I got this.

My Husband started taking Chantix. He only took it for about 3 weeks then stopped. During that 3 weeks he made no attempt to not smoke. Do I still live with a smoker. I still dump the ashtray and see his cigarettes and lighters on the counter. But I know now that I can have a thought of wanting to smoke and just let that thought pass.

I GOT THIS!!!

30 Replies

Congrats on 5 weeks!  That's awesome!!

Jennifer-Quit
Member

Big Congratulations to you!  

YoungAtHeart
Member

FIVE weeks is lookin' GOOD on you!

Glad to hear it is feeling good, too!

Nancy

CONGRATULATIONS on 5 weeks!! It really does keep getting better and better!

ONWARD TO FREEDOM!!!

Chuck

gregp136
Member

It felt reallllllly good to read this.  Thank you.  A ways behind you here, but every success story gives us rookies strength!

dwwms
Member

Congratulations on 5 weeks! Though I'm early on in this quit - I know from previous quits that the dreams do come. It's a relief when you wake up and realize it was just a dream. I haven't gotten to that stage yet, but I'm sure they're coming.

It must be extra tough when you live with a smoker - my wife quit around 10+ years ago and she's had to put up with me smoking for quite some time. I didn't smoke in the house (stopped doing that in 2002), and I'd always empty my ashtray that was kept outside. I feel guilty now that I wasn't there to support her, but I think she understands - she told me before this quit that I couldn't do it for her - it had to be for myself!

Hopefully your husband will realize that he needs to do it for himself as well.

So glad YOU GOT THIS!!

Doug

wlh
Member

Congrats on the 5 weeks!!  Sounds like you have all your ducks lined up!!  

Lynne

Congratulations!

Keep stacking those Weeks - one Day at a time!

Congratulations Kellybeth! That's AWESOME!

BTW, He's a bully

Keep on keepin on,

M n @