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swinns
Member

Need to quit

Need to quit. Help!!

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sweetplt
Member

Hi and Welcome to Ex’s...glad you want to quit smoking...Read at My EX Plan | BecomeAnEX to  make a quit date and to become knowledgeable in the quit process.  You will spend much time preparing for your quit day like no other...We are in this journey together, keep close to the support site...You have some great information above me...now get working...~ Colleen 202 DOF 

swinns
Member

Thanks so much!

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maryfreecig
Member

      Hi swinns, sounds like you've been given a quit or else (health? job?).  First of all, welcome to Ex--a strong quit community that will be here for you as much as you want it to be. Take a deep breath and try to realize that people are quitting successfully every day. Many have been long term smokers who by the time they decided to quit felt that they were giving up everything by quitting. Turns out that with a little help and time in not smoking, smoking really doesn't have to be everything. Stick with Ex, read, get invested in your quit. It is not the end of your world...not at all.

swinns
Member

Thank you!

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Gwenivere
Member

While I agree with all the resources and support here, I want to add that Nicotine Replacement Therapy (NRT) is also a very valuable option as well.  Many here could not have done this without it.  I feel it is downplayed a lot and don’t want to see possible success stories lost because it is not offered to new people as just as viable option as cold turkey.     It’s no cure, per se, but it does help many stick with it that would give up.  There is no escaping withdrawl symptoms and it does take longer, but for some that can be preferable as the goal is the same.

Mandolinrain
Member

Welcome to Ex, your in a good place now sit and stay....and learn

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indingrl
Member

Welcome and CONGRATS to YOU! WAY TO GO! EDUCATION is the key- reading reading reading - taking what HELPS and let go of the rest- to be HELPFUL is MY only aim - thank you- Yahoooooooooo for loving yourself to live and FACT - 3 days NICOTINE -  is out of your body - physically -  the rest is renewing YOUR mind - NEW learning skills - NEW ideas -  NEW ways - NEW thoughts - YOUR OWN choices just for YOUR PERSONAL NON SMOKER life style to choose by reading all information here and the blogs by ALL those sharing their experience and HOPE and also at -  whyquit.com -  there are videos to watch- IF you choose to watch them - gentle hug.❤

Giulia
Member

Glad you're here.  Personally I believe it's an addiction.  Habits are more easily broken through behavioral changes alone.  Addictions aren't.  She said, not having a degree in psychology or anything else for that matter.  I'm simply speaking from my own gut and the knowledge I've gained from having been on this site for 11 years.  From what I've learned, our brains have been changed physically by smoking.  We've increased our nicotine receptors.  A couple of videos on the subject:  What is the Single Best Thing You Can Do to Quit Smoking? - YouTube   and Nicotine and Your Brain - YouTube .    So, it's really a combination of both, to my mind.  It's the behavioral and physical/chemical aspects that cause us to remain in NEED of a cigarette.  An example:  I used to bite my nails as a youth.  That was a "habit."  I don't think it changed my brain.  So it was fairly easy to stop doing that.  

Anyway, it doesn't really matter whether you conceive of your slavery to cigarettes as an addiction or simply a bad habit.  The point is you want to discover the means to rid yourself of the NEED to smoke.  And you will discover that as you proceed on your journey.  /blogs/Giulia-blog/2018/03/01/quitting-is-a-skill-that-can-be-learned?sr=search&searchId=43558cc5-08...‌  If it helps you to think of it as a bad habit - go with that.  If you aren't succeeding with that thought - change you thinking.  Part of this journey is learning to change our thinking.  And so the more open minded you can be, the better chance you have of making this life-altering move.  Most of us have found that we learn so much about ourselves in the process.  It's actually rather thrilling.  Hope you find that true for yourself.  Stick around.

minihorses
Member

Welcome to EX!  You've gotten a ton of excellent advice and resources here, many of which you have already been given.  My small 2 cents worth is that you will not be successful by saying you "need to quit".  Barring any medical problems, I've found that the only time a quit has been started in earnest is when we want to quit.  Wanting something is a goal we work harder to reach and until we really want it, the "need" to quit attitude may not be enough to go the distance.  This site is a true God send for everyone's quit journey and I'm looking forward to seeing you around and hopefully offering some help when you need it!  

Julie

prjimm01
Member

I am going on 1610 days because I came here, learned what I could and did as I was instructed!!!  You may notice that I am still here!  Go for it my friend, choose to live.