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JACKIE1-25-15
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Take a Breather

There are times that so much is going on in our lives that we have to stop and take a breather.  Well, if you can't stop, how about slowing it down.  Your journey will have a better chance to continue. Early on in my quit if I got EXcited, Upset, Angry, Fearful it would be a trigger.to smoke.   I would try my best to remain calm and slow things down. That may not have always worked; but with practice, I learned that breathing was a great cure for getting through a craving/relieve stress.

Today in Virginia it is HOT!. It probably is hot in other places too but f you are curious of what hell maybe like you could come here.  Just kidding I am not complaining.  I take whatever I am given.  Can't change it, so I  just adjust.  Thank God for AC. Anyway, as I am on my way out in this heat while getting into my car I noticed I was taking in air and blowing out air.  I thought if someone saw me now they would wonder what is the world is wrong with me but that is what I do.  Automatically, it is still my #1 tool kit skillset.    We have always heard to take a deep breath to calm down.  Even taught to breathe deep when having babies.  We have a tendency to just pass it off and never give it a try.  So I am passing this crave buster tip . to you.  BREATHE  It works  After 4 years 5months it is still an automatic release of stress for me.  NOPE  Today was a reminder. The very best part, I can take it anywhere I go and it really WORKS!  Whatever you are going through...

The journey continues...

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elvan
Member

GREAT advice, Jackie.  I took out the garbage and recycling and I really wasn't sure I could make it back into the house...this oppressive humidity is making breathing harder than usual and it's hard enough.  You are so right, thank God for AC!  I talked to relatives in different parts of NY and they are complaining about the heat and humidity as well.  I did use the pool this morning before it got too hot to be outside in the sun, it was quite wonderful.

Ellen

Giulia
Member

Good reminder.  I was taking deep breaths several times yesterday.  Also YELLED LOUDLY at the air in my car while sitting in a gas station.  Fortunately the windows were UP!  lol  (Yelling in your car can be quite cathartic, almost as good as beating a pillow!))  

JACKIE1-25-15
Member

Yeah, I do that also.  Glad no one can hear us. 

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Giulia
Member

ME TOO!  Course we might look totally insane!

Thanks

Hoggie's snoring so I'm taking a breather

sweetplt
Member

Jackie JACKIE1-25-15 so helpful...Thank you for all your great information...stay cool and drink lots of fluids...very hot here in PA too...but like you I am Thankful to God for a/c and a full refrigerator...~ Colleen 226 DOF 

Summer-Rain
Member

Great blog.  Thanks for sharing!

The journey continues

JACKIE1-25-15
Member

Hey Summer Rain, Good to see you.  The journey continues

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indingrl
Member

Thanks for sharing Jackie - yes - 3 deep breathes works for ME - gentle hug❤