Support with a positive, friendly, humble attitude. His goal is to motivate members to work harder and fulfill their responsibility of quitting smoking. Jim has the ability to take a negative situation and turn it into a positive. Jim continuously supports the EX community using positive affirmations to impart his wisdom and cheer us on. You are sure to get the point from his logic, truth, and humor.
Logic
"Banish the thoughts of "struggle" and replace them with pride of conquest."
When you learn about quitting and nicotine addiction, you'll build confidence. You may even be more afraid of continuing to smoke than quitting."
"I like to call them "smoking thoughts" rather than craves."
Truth
Yup, " I lost my quit" Translation: " I decided to smoke."
"Once an addict always an addict. S.I.N.A.O."
"A crave won't hurt you, smoking will."
"No luck necessary. You're the boss of your quit"
Humor
"Don't fear the snake. It only will bite if you allow it to. Craves are like snakes..."
"I didn't smoke today but didn't vacuum either. I don't plan on smoking but plan on vacuuming a couple of times a year whether the place needs it or not."
"Time is like a roll of toilet paper. It goes more quickly towards the end."
Always the gentleman, Jim is a breath of fresh air. He has a listening ear and a heart that understands.
Thank you, Jim, for staying and supporting the EX family after 5 1/2 years.
freeneasy , I dedicate this video/song to you. (Can be seen in the comment below)
You remind me of this song. Summer Breeze - Seals & Croft #1 Hit(1972) - YouTube
freeneasy Jim is a kind and considerate man who does anything and everything he can for others, it is a privilege to be on this journey with him. Thanks for highlighting him JACKIE1-25-15.
Thanks Jackie. Jim and all the elders who stick around are a wealth of support and information. Many thanks to all who have chosen to help and continue to learn.
That's awesome!!
Hat's off to you, Jim!
Everyone may not know, but Jim has fought his own health issues -----and never used them as an excuse to smoke. He is ALSO the world's BEST photo bomber (Photobucket)
Thanks for hanging around!
Nancy
Thanks Jim for all you do!!
Thank you, Jim, for all you give. You have helped me a lot on my journey...
and thanks to you JACKIE1-25-15 for honoring our elders with these posts...
You are quite welcome. It is a two-fold purpose, to give tribute to the Elders and introduce them to the newer members of the community. It is evolving. lol
Thank you Jackie and Thank you Jim for always being here for all of us you are a so appreciated for your caring and dedication to ex.....
Thank you Jim for all you do.
Good job Jackie.
KOKO,
Had the pleasure of meeting Jim in Virginia Beach. Very considerate man! We are thankful for your service here at EX!
Another good choice Jackie!
Thanks Jim for all your encouragement!
He also wears his tidy whites in a very unique way! (What happens on Skype stays on Skype. lol) Jim is someone you can count on to be there for you. A quiet strength with an open heart. Thanks for being here for us, Jim.
hahah i will never forget the tidy whities!!! darnit, i should of saved that pic too!!
Humble is a great word for this wonderful Elder! Jim you are most defiantly a blessing to this site and to my own quit journey. Thank you for being here for ALL of us!!!
Thank you Jackie for bringing out some sweet elders for us to appreciate even more
Thanks Jackie! Way to go Jim! freeneasy - is indeed a steady and vital elder!
Thank you Jackie for good thankful love service unconditional blog....thank you Jim for all your support unconditional service that strengthened me when I needed it most..... you Jim helped me to not give up.....your blogs to read helped me get me off my mind and think of the newcomer and to remember..... I am not alone because you Jim have been in emotional turmoil too and shared your experience with all here... taking whats helpful and keep moving forward....This too shall pass.... CONGRATS JIM on 5 & half years as a non smoker.... Good job... I love and appreciate you Jim for never giving on me or any of us here. Gentle hug to you Jim and a kiss on each cheek on your handsome face. May God continue to bless you in our Lord Jesus name amen
Thank you for your comment. I wanted to say he was handsome too but I did not want to appear being too forward. Thanks for saying it for me.
A Special Thank You for the many kindnesses and wise comments you have extended over the Years! You have made all of us feel that much closer because we feel cared about and for. You are a true Blessing for all who cross your path.
YES!!!! YAY Jim!!! A fellow Pennsylvanian AND Lehigh Valley neighbor! Calm, considerate and always supportive. Strong in his quit......understanding of all others.
Thank you, Jackie and thanks to everyone for all of your kind words (blushing) . There are so many people who were here when I found this site and many who came after me who helped me quit and stay that way- too many to name them all. There are so many people here who amaze me-so many who contribute their time and talent that it humbles me. Quitting smoking really is a journey and I learned here there is so much more to that journey than quitting smoking. It makes me think of the term "collateral kindness" that I think Tommy coined. I Can't imagine being on the journey alone without this place.
P.S. Jackie thank you for the song. It was a hit around the same time I graduated from high school...now I just gave away my age.
Really nice tribute to our Jim ! Great job Jackie ! You are so thoughtful .
The toilet paper humor! OMG that is so true. LOL Great tribute to freeneasy JIm, JACKIE1-25-15