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Part Of The Problem Of Quitting (A Big Part)

JonesCarpeDiem
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Is we are REPETITIVE beings.

Look at food as one example.

We learn seasonal likes for certain foods from our family.

Often at those times each year those foods are recreated by us long after those people are gone because it is familiar. It's also seasonal based on fruits and vegetables available. People make apple pies in the Fall. Cherry pies in the Spring.  All these memories and connections make us who we are and influence our behavior.

I remember my dad having smoked sardines and saltines in the Spring and buttermilk in the summer.

REPETITION IS COMFORTING BECAUSE IT'S FAMILIAR.

THAT'S WHY WE DO IT.

I would imagine our smoking cues begin in much the same way and deepen the longer we smoke,

and thus,

the unexpected amount of time it takes to unlearn it.

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Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.