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Step Outside The Crave

JonesCarpeDiem
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      Some people say to ride them like a wave. Some people fight their way through.

      If you would look at a craving from an outside persons point of view, you can remove yourself from the middle of the storm and learn what created and drove it.

   This understanding often allows you to simply bypass this bump the next time it appears.  "Oh yeah, I've dealt with this trigger before. Next?"

Ask yourself some questions when you gat a crave.

What made me think of smoking right now?

Was it the task I was doing?

Was it the reward after the task I was expecting?

Was it an emotion I've tied to smoking?

      As you pinpoint the causes, it becomes easier and easier to build your non smoking experiences into a stronger quit.

   Yes, I realize many are instructed try to pinpoint their triggers/reasons for smoking or wanting to smoke before they quit but, you'll find you need to continue learning after you've quit until you are comfortable and have let smoking go.

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About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.