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What Changed If You've Been Quit For A Week And Then You Smoke?

JonesCarpeDiem
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What about if you've been quit a month? How about a year? 5 Years?

The answer is the same no matter how long your were quit.

Your thinking changed.

You changed your focus to smoking.

When you change your focus to smoking you begin considering it.

Nothing makes you smoke except your own thoughts. NOTHING.

If you are just beginning

Use each day you've quit as proof you can do it and build on them.

      Here are 2 simple steps to get you on track

ONE  Say "I don't do that anymore" when you think of smoking. Do it every time.

You will be amazed how fast this will retrain those wandering thoughts.

After you've done this for a week each time you think of smoking you will find that phrase will come to you instead.

TWO  Once you retrain your wandering mind to accept quitting (using step one)  you can begin relearning life without smoking. If you change your routines slightly it will make not smoking considerably less stressful.

      Obsessive thinking about smoking or not smoking only creates angst.

Quitting isn't about that.

It's about living.

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Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.