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"Conditions"

JonesCarpeDiem
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‎11-16-2015 05:23 PM

Have you put any on your quit?

Have you bargained with yourself and told yourself things like "I won't smoke as long as my car keeps running?"

Or

"I won't smoke as long as I get that job"

Bargaining with yourself may or may not be a kicker.

I did it. I gave myself an out. It was only one and the chances of it happening were miniscule but...

 

But...

But

You can't bargain with a quit.

It's all or nothing....

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Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.