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UPDATE on Nancy / Youngatheart

JonesCarpeDiem
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‎01-05-2015 07:35 AM

I had a good conversation with her last night although it was cut short because we discovered morphine does not stop the pain of a belly laugh.

Her daughter arrived from California after just returning last Friday after the holidays.

She sounded well and accepting of her condition although I'm sure she's sick and tired of the soon to be three years of recovery from various health problems.

She has a bulletin board on caringbridge.org. (It was started after another health problem. I can't even remember which one)

If you'd like to leave her a note you can join caringbridge.org for free with just an email and a user name and search for NancyA.

She appreciates all your prayers and support.

She said she'd call me today so i will update you when I hear more.

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Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.