Don't let your disappointment that others choose to smoke discourage you.
The following is taken from my page
"I've put in enough time here to know I can't save everybody. People talk themselves into smoking. It's not my fault. People put themselves in risky situations and choose to smoke. It's not my fault. Every time people choose to smoke, they break a promise to themselves and put another hole in their armor. it's not my fault."
this doesn't mean I or you don't care, it means they dIdn't.