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and on the third day

JonesCarpeDiem
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The friends brother who I was supposed to be influencing to quit and I were out in the patio. I was out for some air and he walked  into the patio from the workshop smoking a cigarette. I realized right then that smoking was only a decision. He could smoke but I could choose not to. It made me laugh. It felt good. It was like I had felt the urge and I caught myself.

I was able to laugh at it and move on. It became my tool. I had an option..It became a "gotcha" game. For the remainder of those first two weeks, every time I got the urge to smoke I laughed. It got to the point I was thinking of laughing instead of smoking.

The day I got off the patch near the end of the first two weeks, I joined a quit smoking site and that is where I learned the answers to all my questions and when I began putting together a timeline of what we all experience and about when. I wanted to know what to expect and when and that there was a light at the end of the tunnel.

Your mind is your greatest tool. Believe in yourselves. Stick it out. Ask questions. Keep Moving Forward>

"The only way out is through"

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About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.