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How I got off the patch with no anxiety or apprehension.

JonesCarpeDiem
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when i first started the patch, i never had a plan for when i would stop using them. at that time i didn't know one thing about quitting or the attitude required to be successful. I was just like any new quitter.

i quit on a Tuesday. I forgot to wear one on that Friday.

When I woke on Sat, i had to ask myself how i was feeling and make a decision. i listened to my body and decided i wasn't ready to get off.

the following week i forgot again. and the next day, again.

I had that conversation with my body again. If I felt ok, why would i keep using them?

Here's the trick I used after I stopped using them..

I put one in my wallet and promised myself if i was seriously considering smoking, i would put one on and wait an hour.

I kept that patch in my wallet my whole first year.

I was tricking myself into keeping my quit no matter what. It was a trick I knew would work.

it was then i joined my first quit smoking site.

now, i am not suggesting everyone stop using them in two weeks, but i am saying, talk to yourself. be honest, not clouded by fear  if you do that, and when you are comfortable, you will know.

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Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.