Update Youngatheart (Nancy) and I'm back home feeling groggy from the anesthesia.

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Nancy is down. She has had 3 major health setbacks in the past 2-3 years and she is just tired of all the hardship and difficulties of long term recovery.

I want to help pull her out of it but she won't take phone calls or skype either. I'm at a loss.i can't cheer her up if she won't talk.

please keep her in your prayers

On another note, you guys are doing a great job with your help and advice

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Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.

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Update Youngatheart (Nancy) and I'm back home feeling groggy from the anesthesia.