What does someone saying you'll never be free do for you?
Are you looking for strength (say from a higher power) to stop doing something that you allow to control you?
In the end, must you not discover the decision and strength have to come from within you?
Isn't it you that must decide and then continue to make the right choices?
Does this thing control you even when you aren't using it?
I would hate to think because I smoked for 40 years it controls anything but the health consequences I may incur. Why should it?
I have no desire to smoke cigarettes because I decided I wouldn't smoke anymore.
How many times does it take? It only needs to take one time.
Who can do it for you?