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so they handed me 3 sheets of discharge instructions when i left the surgery center yesterday

JonesCarpeDiem
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i went through them last night and condensed it to 6 lines.

people

don't get too bogged down in the amount of information.

you only need to know a few things to quit.

1. you have to decide you won't smoke.

2. you have to use common sense and NOT keep them around or get into situations

 (always be prepared to turn and walk away for a few minutes)

3. it's a process, not an event. (it generally takes about 4 1/2 months to not think about smoking but rarely.

    you have to unlearn those "smoke with everything" memories and make new ones without smoking

   you have unlearn the hand to mouth to inhale habit part.

4. craves only last a few minutes unless you start making them one big one in your mind

  if you feel one coming on just say out loud "i'm not going there" that will cut if off hearing yourself say it. be forceful. Say it until it goes away....and when the next one comes say "i'm not going there" that will cut that one off. your quit will build on itself if you do this whenever a crave comes. i laughed when i got a crave. you must break the crave thoughts and out loud works best.

5. if you can talk yourself into it, you can talk yourself out of it.

you don't even have to know the above if you KEEP THEM AWAY FROM YOUR FACE!

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Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.