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Don't Talk Yourself Into Smoking (I'm gonna keep hammering this point home for the new people)

JonesCarpeDiem
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Use the power you were given to talk yourself out of a crave!

I've been having these horrible waves of pain from a dry socket.

When one of those pain waves (craves) came over me, I learned to close my eyes and breathe deep like I was falling asleep. I found doing those 2 things was the path of least resistance in getting the pain to pass quickly.

What we do when we've quit smoking is to work ourselves into a frenzy thinking of having a smoke and building on that thought until we can't take it anymore. It's called self talk. Most of us use it against ourselves often. (Fear of Failure)

WHY NOT USE IT TO HELP YOURSELF? Start talking yourself down from the craves not deeper into them.

Just say to yourself "I'm not smoking anymore and I know it's going to get better and I won't be thinking of smoking in the future"

This really works!

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About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.