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Don't Try To White Knuckle Your Quit

JonesCarpeDiem
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You are fighting yourself continually when you do that.

If you really want to quit why would you want to fight yourself the whole way?

It's unnecessary and counterproductive.

People who try to grit their teeth and bear it aren't going to be the ones who make it.

Quitting smoking doesn't take a week or a month. It takes at least 4 months and based upon recent studies, smokers who quit often have stronger craves in months 2, 3 and 4 than in the first month. Most people give up and smoke during this time period because they get tired of fighting themselves. So, do you think you can fight off smoking for over 4 months?

Yes, you will be uncomfortable the first 2-3 weeks. BUT, no worse than a bad head cold in misery level.

It's where you take it with your head during and after that time that counts.

Don't magnify urges or negative feelings. Think of that head cold misery level. it doesn't have to go beyond that unless you start building it up. Catch yourself before you build it up. Stop yourself. TAKE CONTROL!

If you really want to quit, learn what you need to know then, break it down and make a plan and practice doing things differently before your quit date.

There are timelines of what you can expect to experience during your quit. There is all the information in the world on this site.

It's going to be what you make it.

Learn to step around when you get a crave and you can rise out of the ashes forever!

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About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.