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People Talk Themselves Out Of Their Quits

JonesCarpeDiem
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think about the times you've quit and then broken down and gone back to smoking.

didn't you talk yourself into smoking?

didn't you have a dialog that you got going with yourself? you know, to the point where your thinking overwhelmed your quit.

compare it to a panic attack. if you keep going in the negative direction there is no turning back. you can build up some discomfort to the point of total fear and fall into what feels like an emotional abyss.

it happened to me after my surgery not long ago.  I was in a bed in pain, afraid to move after surgery. i got claustrophobic because i had not moved for 12 hours. I had IV's, monitoring equipment and a foley catheter tying me to that hospital bed so i could not get up and move.

It took a real turning of my thoughts to not totally freak out but i turned my thoughts real fast and didn't go over the edge.

If you start thinking and talking to yourself about how you want to smoke you will take yourself to the point of smoking. Stop the dialong before it gets started!

Don't Go There When You Get A Craving! You honestly can control it and keep your quit.

Believe in yourself not the old lies that held you all these years.

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About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.