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Your Quit Will Be What You Make It In Your Head

JonesCarpeDiem
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Start thinking of it as a positive thing.

Get excited!

Put a lilt in your step.....you never thought you could do this

but you CAN

DECIDE

this is the beginning!

I can tell you what a great feeling it is to see the changes in people after they quit.

It may begin as the fear of bad health but it can become the joy of doing something good for yourself.

It starts a chain reaction. The things you couldn't do? now you can do them, You've taken a mental weight off of your shoulders and you've removed a major limiter of your action. (your old inaction)

this is what can fuel a good quit. so you gotta keep the joy.

How do you do that?

well, we tend to replace one thing with another but  the "another" doesn't have to be a negative thing.

choose good things to replace the time you spent smoking. make them things you enjoy.

you want a feeling of satisfaction and you can get it from a lot of things other than smoking.

 

invest yourself in something. art, music, running, walking, sewing, needlepoint, kayaking, skydiving, helping people...this whole feeling of loss will go away in time.

Hey! you may as well enjoy it!

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About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.