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"I Never Once Thought I Couldn't Do This"

JonesCarpeDiem
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If you don't carry the full force of your decision to quit smoking with you at all times, you may become overwhelmed.

Keep it positive for there is nothing negative about quitting smoking.

Yes it's uncomfortable for awhile but you didn't give up on life the last time you had a bad cold did you?

You didn't think life was over the time you sprained your ankle or broke your arm did you?

The discomfort those first few weeks is no worse that those things.

It's what you let your mind do with that discomfort that makes or breaks a quit.

When you think of smoking, immediately shock your thinking into something else.

It only takes moments to divert your thinking.

Biting into a lemon, skin and all, will shock you out of it. Sticking your head in the freezer and breathing the cold air will do it. Throwing cold water in your face will do it. Laughing at the craves will do it.

Laughing is a great way to retrain your mind. You cannot stay in that place of panic or discombobulation when you hear yourself laugh. Ot makes no difference whether you feel like it or not. Try it! It is a reminder. A reminder of where you are going instead of where you are at. It breaks that negative thought pattern. It also causes a dopamine release. After a week of laughing when you crave, you will be thinking of laughing, not smoking.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

This is your life. Be good to yourselves.

KEEP YOUR QUIT!

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About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.