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Decision And Promises

JonesCarpeDiem
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The decision to quit smoking.

ok. you're not playing around anymore.

whether you've tried to quit twice or fifty times or more you must finally decide there is a reason to quit smoking that outweighs continuing smoking.

very important that "decision". That means done, decided. there is no try anymore.

first promise

you gotta get through the first 3 days. promise yourself you will go through those first three days.

doing this will strengthen you to do more.

ok, you made it through three days. you never thought you could do it but you did.

2nd Promise

next is getting through three weeks. the end of 3 weeks is the time where the fogginess starts to dissipate, the cravings aren't so bothersome. You know you can do it when you're feeling better.

don't mope in your quit. be happy that you are no longer still killing yourself and paying to do it.

Man! the end of this 4th week. damn! you are feeling sort of on the cocky side now. what else is there, you ask?

Third Promise

the next one hundred days of living without smoking. focus on the positive things of not having to smoke.

be prepared to be blindsided. these hundred days are no mans land. this is the time many people smoke and lose what they worked for. they either start back up smoking again for an indefinite period, even years, or, they can start over.

We know the longer you delay, the greater chance you may choose to keep smoking.

We know the more you fail the harder it is to believe you can do it.

It takes about 4 months and 10 days people until you can feel semi-normal not smoking.

is it too much to ask?

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About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.