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It's Utimately What You Believe Not What You Use To Quit

JonesCarpeDiem
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When I quit, i didn't know about any quit smoking websites until i was 2 weeks quit.

I spent a month just telling myself to delay that next cigarette. there was no tension, no fear, no apprehension, no quit date. A friend asked if i would consider quitting to mentor his brother who also smoked. so i was just testing myself. i didn't necessarily want to quit and i had not yet decided to quit.

on the friday before the tuesday i quit, i was down from a pack a day to 5 a day and i had never once gotten uptight about quitting. that day, i knew i was buying my last pack. there was not a conscious plan, i just knew it.

I used the patch. I put my faith in the patch to help ease the physical withdrawal. that's all.

i used 10 during my first 14 days.

that means on my 14th day I used a patch and 4 days (not in consecutive order) i didn't.

i had put my faith in the patch to help me quit until i knew i didn't need it.

i even carried one in my wallet my first year and promised myself i would use it rather than smoke.

so it is what you believe that carries you through, not what you are using.

i also never went back to the store i bought my cigarettes.

use your common sense.

don't put yourself in harms way with bad choices.

and stay busy. i played guitar all day at that friends house those first two weeks.

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Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.