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The Success Rate For Those Who Aren't Serious About Quitting?

JonesCarpeDiem
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ZERO

you have to have some interest in not smoking and build that interest into confidence so you can quit.

so, how do you do that?

you start catching yourself when you want to smoke and you say "I'm gonna wait a little longer.

if you are truly interested in quitting the time between smokes will grow to hours over time and it won't seem like torture, it you will feel like you are gaining control

 

It shows you that you don't need to smoke every time you want to smoke.

Doesn't that seem more positive than just thinking about quitting and doing nothing?

Isn't that a better way to get started than just doing nothing and thinking you will magically quit?

One part of quitting smoking is the addiction.

The second part is smoking induced from memories,  emotions and the daily repetition.

If you are using the patch, use the time on the patch to soften the edges while you get a handle on the second part.

The patch isn't going to quit for you. Nothing will.

except you.

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About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.