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The Most Important Suggestion I Have For Those About A Month Before Your Quit.

JonesCarpeDiem
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PRE QUIT BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION

"Delaying NOT Weaning"

Each Time you want to smoke one, tell yourself

"I will wait a little longer" A minute, 15 minutes, an hour, three hours. It's not so much the amount of time initially. The length of time will grow automatically as

your mind gets around the idea that you are going to be quitting smoking.

Never deprive yourself during the process as you may start fearing what you're going to do without cigarettes.  This fear is totally unnecessary.

In 3-4 weeks you most likely be smoking 50-75%  less than you are now.

I went from a pack a day to 5cigs  a day in 4 weeks. Then I used the patch for two weeks and

here I am.

This is my first  and only quit after 40 years of smoking.  I have been quit over 5 years.

 

I never got uptight because I wasn't depriving myself by smoking one less a day or some other such  nonsense.

When you get down to 5 or so a day? Your mind should be saying, "I think I'm ready now."

Listen to your body. You know it better than anyone.

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About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.