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If You Are Going To Use A Quit Smoking Aid, Use It, Don't Let It Use You

JonesCarpeDiem
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Quitting Smoking Is Learning About Yourself. If you choose to use an aid and think it quarantees Your Quit, You will probably fail. Use an aid as an aid. There are plenty of people here who have tried EVERYTHING.

If you are using the patch, learn what makes your habit tick while you are using it.

If you are using the gum, learn what drives you to use it so you aren't drooling for your

next piece for years and get off it as soon as you feel you can. You can always go off a day and see how you do.

I did this with the patch. 10 patches in the first 14 days. Then off. The 4 individual days within the 14 when I wasn't wearing the patch,  I did not panic. I let myself experience the day without it and it let me see where I was. Remember, we know our bodies better than anyone because we live in them.

Thes  TEMPORARY AIDS are to kickstart your quit while you learn what drove your smoking habit.

They are not intended to replace one nicotine fix with another INDEFINITELY.

Cigarettes and tobacco are part of the battle of release.

The other part is relinquishing the drug that  keeps you coming back for your next fix. 


Why? 

Because smoking gives you the fastest nicotine delivery and after awhile, you just might crave that quick fix and go right back to it.

Nothing guarantees your quit but you

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About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.