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All Kinds Of Addictions And They All Happen In Our Brains (Warning)

JonesCarpeDiem
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A friends 15 year old daughter has "fallen in love" online with a 20 year old boy in England.

Now she won't go to school so she can visit with him, physically attacks her mother for trying to end it

by cutting off the internet and shutting down her iphone, and has threatened suicide if this is done.


See, her brain releases dopamine when she is thinking of this guy and can't  stand to think of not getting that

fix. She doesn't even understand what's happening. She doesn't understand they will most likely never

meet. She doesn't understand that she is not there and he can do any damn thing he likes and she will

never know it but be just as jealous when he doesn't meet her at the designated time. She doesn't

understand that he may be older than he says and possibly a pervert. It's a sick addiction.


Same kind of addiction as when we smoked.

The nicotine causes a release of dopamine in your brain.


So parents, watch your kids. This could happen to them in their formative years and ruin their lives.


And, break that smoking habit.    We're all doing it here!

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About the Author
Hello, My name is Dale. I was quit 18 months before joining this site and had participated on another site during that time. I learned a lot there and brought it with me. I joined this site the first week of August 2008. I didn't pressure myself to quit. HOW I QUIT I didn't count, I didn't deny myself to get started. When I considered quitting (at a friends request to influence his brother to quit), I simply told myself to wait a little longer. No denial, nothing painful. After 4 weeks I was down to 5 cigarettes from a pack a day. The strength came from proving to myself, I didn't need to smoke because I normally would have smoked. Simple yes? I bought the patch. I forgot to put one on on the 4th day. I needed it the next day but the following week I forgot two days in a row I put one in my wallet with a promise to myself that I would slap it on and wait an hour rather than smoke. It rode in my wallet my first year.There's nothing keeping any of you from doing this. It doesn't cost a dime. This is about unlearning something you've done for a long time. The nicotine isn't the hard part. Disconnecting from the psychological pull, the memories and connected emotions is. :-) Time is the healer.