today I ask her if she can eat curry?
she says she is allergic to curry and the last time she had it, she had to be taken to the hospital.
So I make the dish, Chicken Divan W/O Mayo, and take it to her, and tell her there is curry in it.
Well, as it turned out, she loved it and she wasn't allergic.
For 40 years she thought she was allergic to curry.
If you think you can't do something, you won't.
Take a chance on living without cigarettes (or not living, from what I now know.
You might be happily surprised!