That has been my pastors series and it seems appropriate for me right now. I really have been self centered the past few weeks, but I find when I can get out of my own head and the me, me, me's of a 2 yr. old, this process is so much easier. My friend for a decade now has been diagnoses with breast cancer this past week. She is only 40 and quit smoking 6mo. ago. She does not use this site. She has tests and scans all week to test for any spreading and I hate that she is going through this. However, I have found that since all my thoughts have been with her, I have not had a single crave.