This Isn't a Contest!

Blog Post created by Thomas3.20.2010 on Nov 5, 2016



OK so I’m a little hung over from anesthesia so take what you like and leave the rest!

I’ve seen a lot of folks comparing their quit to what they perceive is the rest of us or their life journey as easier  or harder than so-and-so’s.

I don’t know a single person who has it easy! Nor does my suffering disqualify your pain or visa-versa!

There is enough heartbreak and hope to go around for ALL OF US!

We all have highs and lows. Maybe your challenges look very different than mine but that doesn’t mean that it’s time to get the yardstick out!

When you’re in pain or difficulty I want to be there to support you – aside from my own circumstances!

When you’re celebrating your Life moments or memories I want share that JOY as well!

Can we stop zipping the lip because we think others are somehow worse or better off and thus, we deny ourselves permission to be where we’re at?

The human condition is malleable – we all have our ups and downs that we can all share together because….