Confidence on the outside begins by living with integrity on the inside.
Just in case you're new here today and haven't heard, we are JUNKIES! I am and YOU ARE, Too! Here's the difference between us and those guys jonesing for a fix!
When you have QUIT SMOKING you break the cycle of dishonesty that says anything to "justify" my next hit! You know, "Oh I don't smoke much, everybody deserves a vice!", or "just one won't hurt!", or (I love this one!)" I can quit any time I want!" (and here's the other half!) "I can't quit - I've tried a dozen times!"
There are an infinite number of LIES that we tell ourselves in order to give in to that next craving and keep the Monster happy!
Now, once you stay quit for a good while,that smoke cloud rises and you are left standing there in all your natural beauty! The REAL YOU! The Rose with thorns!
You have to learn to live with yourself just as God intends for you to be! You have to become INTEGRATED!
You can't run for a cig and hide behind the smoke any more! This is YOU! And it's a Great Opportunity to look at yourself - really take a good look! - and say "I like what I see!"
There's a person with so much courage (s)he kicked the addiction for LIFE! There's a person who had FOCUS, who had DETERMINATION, who RESPECTS themself, who HONORS their DECISIONS!
That's a darn AWESOME PERSON!
You set a Goal and made it happen even though you were afraid, anxious, upset, disoriented! You made it happen! YOU DID THAT! WOW!
If you could do that you can do all kinds of things! You have EXcellent reason to be CONFIDENT because you have INTEGRITY!
Now, seriously, folks, how many people do you know who can say that? Feel PROUD of YOURSELF!