cancel
Showing results for 
Show  only  | Search instead for 
Did you mean: 

Share your quitting journey

Why we say "N.O.P.E."

SkyGirl
Member
6 4 71

Why do we say "Not One Puff Ever"?

At first, it sure sounds like a code-phrase for WILLPOWER, doesn't it? But that's not what it means to us.

"Willpower" is not what it takes to be a successful Quitter. In fact, people who just try to "gut it through" (and "hope it works") are most likely to fail.

The mantra "NOPE" is used because we understand three basic principles:

(1) Nicotine is true chemical addiction,. It uses the same dopamine reward pathways in our brains as as does an addiction to alcohol, cocaine or heroin.

(2) Once we are addicted to nicotine, we cannot "cure" or "kill" an addiction but only ARREST it.

(3) Even after we have successfully arrested our nicotine addiction, taking JUST ONE PUFF of nicotine will create a high probability of becoming a smoker again. This is true regardless of how long we have maintained a successful Quit.

From these three principles comes The Law of Addiction, which states,

"Administration of a drug to an addict will cause re-establishment of chemical dependence upon the addictive substance."

And that, my friends, boils down to "If you take a puff, you're prolly gonna end up smoking again".

(I know this to be absolutely true, because I gave up a 23-year Quit by smoking just one bummed cigarette "to see if I still liked it". That's called "overconfidence". Do not ever develop that. I immediately began smoking full-time again for four more years. I could have avoided that so easily if I'd understood that nicotine is not a "bad habit"; it's an addiction that can be jump-started with one bad choice...)

And so we say: NOT ONE PUFF EVER. (N.O.P.E.)

Get it? Got it! Good!

xxxooo, Sky   (see the site "whyquit.com" for more information on addiction)

4 Comments
About the Author
I'm a 64 year-old flight attendant for a major US airline. Prior to that, I owned an ice cream store and six hot dog carts and put my five kids thru college on hot dog earnings! Prior to THAT, I was Director of International Administration for Domino's Pizza, Inc. I was married to my H.S. sweetheart (dad of my 5 kids) for 17 years. I've been with Jeff for 23 years, but we just finally got married in 2016! Jeff & I live in Cape Meares, OR right on the beach. I'm from Ann Arbor, MI, where many of my kids/relatives still live. My flying base is Washington, DC, where I have a condo that I stay in when I'm between flying trips. My dream is to retire and stay home with Jeff and my two cats, Kenneth & Barbara...not happening soon, though. So I go home whenever I can get a week or more off. I LOVE to meet up with other EXers in the cities where I lay over. I usually blog about what cities I'm laying over in, so let me know if I'm staying near you! I'll buy dinner!! Xxxooo, Sky