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Toilets and Other Priorities

SkyGirl
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I had decided, a few weeks ago, to take almost the entire month of August off.  And after this last trip, I need some relaxation more than ever, right?

I decided to invite some friends out to the Oregon Coast to hang out for a few days, go deep sea fishing, crabbing, antiquing, see some Community Theatre, bonfires on our beach at night, visit some local wineries, tour the cheese factory, do some kayaking, eat some amazing local seafood and play "Sorry".

My Beloved has a cool little motel on the port in Garibaldi, OR, which is the premier Dungeness crab port in upper Oregon.  He gave me a few rooms for my friends for the extended weekend of Aug 22-26. 

Of course, the first person I invited was Teddy, since we have been BFF since we first met here on EX, despite the fact that she is a MUCH sweeter, lovelier person than I could ever hope to be. 

When personality traits were being dealt out, she got the warm, caring, forgiving, loving, patient traits.  She's awesome. In my next life, I want those traits!  In this life, I got the blunt, practical, sensible, factual, functional, hard-boiled traits. 

Teddy and I being close friends is like putting rubber garden boots next to patent leather 4" high heels.  It's like putting Alka-Selter next to a vodka martini.  It's like putting a #2 lead pencil next to a Mont Blanc pen.  But our friendship works.  We like it.  A lot.

Tonight, my beloved friend Teddy had to decline my invitation to come out to the Oregon Coast.  All of her reasons greatly appeal to that "sensible, factual, functional" part of me.  I understand.  If I were Teddy, I'd say I am broken-hearted about her not coming.  Since I'm hard-boiled ME, I say "I am disappointed.  But her reasons make sense.".

But...wait.  She says she needs a new toilet.  I rank below a new toilet?  It's a darn good thing I have a sense of humor, isn't it?  Aaaaaahahahahah.... LOL  

I love you, Teddy. 

Don't smoke.  It's really bad for you.  However, laughing is EXCELLENT for you.

xxxooo,   Sky

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I'm a 64 year-old flight attendant for a major US airline. Prior to that, I owned an ice cream store and six hot dog carts and put my five kids thru college on hot dog earnings! Prior to THAT, I was Director of International Administration for Domino's Pizza, Inc. I was married to my H.S. sweetheart (dad of my 5 kids) for 17 years. I've been with Jeff for 23 years, but we just finally got married in 2016! Jeff & I live in Cape Meares, OR right on the beach. I'm from Ann Arbor, MI, where many of my kids/relatives still live. My flying base is Washington, DC, where I have a condo that I stay in when I'm between flying trips. My dream is to retire and stay home with Jeff and my two cats, Kenneth & Barbara...not happening soon, though. So I go home whenever I can get a week or more off. I LOVE to meet up with other EXers in the cities where I lay over. I usually blog about what cities I'm laying over in, so let me know if I'm staying near you! I'll buy dinner!! Xxxooo, Sky