I just read a blog that someone was going through that but I cant find any info,. on it. I read that it last from day 30 to day 130? Oh crap...tomorrow is my day 30...I am already stressed and trying to cling to this site and God to stay strong after my crappy day yesterday. So what the heck is 'No mans Land' and do we all go through it. Will these urges ever go away? I'm not saying I am giving up...just trying to get educated this time so I don't give up. Thanks~Missy